For years, I lived by the rule: if I wasn’t in the gym for two hours a day, six days a week, it didn’t count. Body part splits were life. Chest and back. Buys and tries. Legs. Repeat.
And if I wasn’t drenched in sweat or crawling out of the gym half-dead? Forget it, I thought the workout was a waste.
Sound familiar?
When I hit 40, my body staged a full-on rebellion.
The same workouts that used to keep me lean started leaving me exhausted, inflamed, and frustrated. That magical progesterone buffer that helped me bounce back? Gone.
Here’s the reality:
Hormones shift, recovery slows, and stress hits harder.
More hours in the gym don’t equal better results.
Crunches won’t flatten your belly (yep, I said it).
Midlife isn’t about punishing your body—it’s about training it to keep up with life.
These days, my workouts look totally different.
Instead of endless cardio or “bro splits,” I focus on:
Mobility first. Foam rolling, dynamic stretches, and prep work that make my body happy.
Power moves. No, not circus-style jumps. Think kettlebell swings, jump rope, or anything that mimics real-life speed and strength.
Functional strength. Pushing, pulling, squatting movements that make carrying groceries, chasing kids, or tossing a suitcase in the overhead bin easier.
Balance and stability. Because losing your footing on an icy sidewalk shouldn’t mean a trip to the ER.
Smart finishers. Ten-minute blasts that rev the engine without wrecking me.
Here’s the thing: crunches won’t give you abs.
They won’t get rid of belly fat. And over time, they can actually put unnecessary strain on your spine (think bending a credit card until it snaps).
The truth? Belly fat in your 40s+ is way more about hormones, inflammation, and gut health than sit-ups. And those six-packs you see on Instagram? 80% genetics.
Strong doesn’t have to mean shredded. Strong means you can live your life without your body holding you back.
A killer workout isn’t about clocking endless hours. It’s about moving smart, lifting heavy (for YOU), and walking away feeling energized, not beat down.
Some of the best workouts I’ve done? Fifteen minutes. No joke.
Because it’s not about how long you train, it’s about how well you train.
Ready to stop doing workouts that fight your body and start building strength that actually lasts? Tune into the full episode of my podcast right here [insert podcast link].
P.S. Want even more support? Join my FREE 5-Day Challenge where I’ll help you ditch the all-or-nothing cycle and create a routine that actually works for your midlife body. Click here to join!
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