If We’re Honest: Why You’re Not Broken (But Your Strategy Might Be)
Ever feel like your body has ghosted you?
You’re doing everything “right”—cutting carbs, logging your food, fasted cardio, workouts on repeat—and STILL nothing’s changing?
Let’s cut through the noise:
You’re not broken. You’re just following rules that no longer work for the version of you today.
This blog is your real-talk permission slip to stop chasing the perfect plan… and finally start building a strategy that fits your actual life.
Plateaus Aren’t Personal — They’re Just Math
So many women tell me, “I’m doing everything, Kim. Why isn’t it working?”
The truth?
Your body isn’t punishing you.
It’s adapting.
That plateau you’re frustrated with? It’s not a sign to go harder or eat less. It’s your body saying, “This strategy isn’t working anymore.” That doesn’t mean you’re doomed. It means it’s time to get curious, not frantic.
Let Go of the Fantasy Routine
If I had a dollar for every time I heard, “I just need to get back to what I used to do…”
But let’s be real:
Your life looks NOTHING like it did 5, 10, 15 years ago.
– Maybe you have kids now.
– Maybe you’re taking care of aging parents.
– Maybe your job is 10x more demanding.
Your body, your time, and your energy are different now. So why are you still expecting the old plan to work?
Let’s build a strategy that fits this season—not some fantasy version of your life that only exists in your head.
The Power of 1–3 Non-Negotiables
You don’t need a 12-step system or a full-body detox to see results. You need consistency with the basics.
Here’s where I want you to start:
Pick 1–3 non-negotiables. That’s it.
Think:
– Protein at every meal
– Walking 8,000–10,000 steps
– A bedtime that doesn’t involve doom-scrolling
– Lifting weights 2–3x per week
They don’t have to be fancy. They just have to be doable—even when life gets lifey.
Because sustainable results come from repeating what actually works for your life.
You Don’t Need to Try Harder—You Need to Train Smarter
Stop dipping your toe in and out of the latest trends.
Stop chasing fast results that burn you out in two weeks.
Stop restarting every Monday.
You’re not lazy.
You’re exhausted from doing too much of what doesn’t serve you.
What if—hear me out—you gave yourself an entire year to build a strong, resilient, energized body instead of trying to force 30-day transformations?
That’s what real change looks like.
Pick Your Pace (And Make Peace With It)
Your results don’t come from doing more.
They come from doing what you can actually maintain. And that’s going to look different in each season of life.
Every 90 days, check in with yourself:
– What’s working?
– What’s draining me?
– What do I need to adjust?
And if you find yourself saying, “I know what to do, I just can’t stay consistent,”—you don’t need more willpower. You need a new strategy.
Final Word: You Are the Magic
You don’t need to earn your food.
You don’t need to “undo” anything.
You don’t need another detox, reset, or 75-day bootcamp.
You just need a plan that works for YOU.
The name of my podcast is Fit Girl Magic for a reason. Because the magic?
It’s not in the scale.
It’s not in the plan.
It’s in YOU.
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